Relationship Breakdown: What Happens to Your Visa?
What the published rules and guidance say when a relationship on the partner route ends: how curtailment actually works, the Victim of Domestic Abuse route to settlement and the concession that supports it, and what remains open where neither applies.
- Section
- Spouse & Partner Visa
- Reading time
- 11 min
- Last checked
- 3 September 2026
- Source
- The published Immigration Rules and GOV.UK guidance, linked throughout this guide.
- Rowan does not
- Look at your own case, tell you which route to choose, or say what the Home Office will decide. This guide shows the published rules and where to read them.
In short
- Permission does not end automatically. Curtailment is discretionary and requires the settled sponsor to make a disclosable public statement.
- There is no right of appeal against a curtailment decision made on or after 6 April 2015.
- Appendix Victim of Domestic Abuse grants settlement, not limited leave, on form SET (DV), with a fee waiver available.
- The Migrant Victims of Domestic Abuse Concession gives 3 months' leave with the right to work and access to public funds.
- Since 16 February 2024 that concession also covers dependent partners on work and study routes.
- The partner route requires the relationship to be subsisting at the extension, so an extension is where the breakdown bites.
- Refusal on the Victim of Domestic Abuse route carries administrative review under Appendix AR.
Permission granted as a partner does not lapse when the relationship ends, and curtailment is neither automatic nor available to the Home Office without the sponsor's cooperation. Where the breakdown is the result of domestic abuse, Appendix Victim of Domestic Abuse leads to settlement rather than to further limited leave, and a separate concession grants 3 months of leave with access to public funds while that is arranged.
If you are in danger now
GOV.UK publishes the helplines below on its page on how to get help with domestic abuse. Call 999 in an emergency.
- England — Refuge's National Domestic Abuse Helpline: 0808 2000 247, with an online live chat.
- Wales — Live Fear Free: 0808 80 10 100, 24 hours a day, with live chat and text.
- Scotland — Domestic Abuse and Forced Marriage Helpline: 0800 027 1234, with online chat and email.
- Northern Ireland — Domestic and Sexual Abuse Helpline: 0808 802 1414, with live chat and email.
- Men's Advice Line, run by Respect: 0808 801 0327.
- Victim Support: 24-hour supportline on 08 08 16 89 111, with live chat.
GOV.UK also names Women's Aid's directory and live chat, the Bright Sky app, and the Safe Spaces scheme in pharmacies and banks.
What happens to permission already granted
Permission granted as a partner does not lapse when a relationship ends. The Home Office guidance Partners, divorce and dissolution sets out the mechanism that can end it early, and it is narrower than it is usually described:
"Where a UK sponsor notifies the Home Office of the breakdown of their marriage or civil partnership during the period when their partner still has limited leave to remain or enter in that capacity, it is possible to consider whether that leave should be curtailed... Curtailment is not however automatic."
And there is a further condition on the Home Office:
"The Home Office will not be able to curtail leave on the grounds that the marriage or civil partnership has broken down unless the UK settled sponsor is prepared to make a disclosable public statement confirming the marriage civil partnership no longer subsists and that they do not intend to live with estranged partner in the future."
The same guidance records that "there is no right of appeal against any curtailment decision made on or after 6 April 2015".
Where permission is not curtailed, it runs to its expiry date on the same conditions. The point at which the breakdown decides the outcome is the next application: paragraph E-LTRP.1.7 of Appendix FM requires the relationship to be genuine and subsisting, and an extension cannot be granted on the partner route without it.
Where the breakdown is the result of domestic abuse
Appendix Victim of Domestic Abuse is a route to settlement, not to further limited leave. Its own summary: "This route allows settlement where a person has, or was last granted, permission as a partner on a specified route and the relationship has permanently broken down due to domestic abuse."
The core requirements
- Paragraph VDA 4.2: "The relationship between the applicant and their partner must have broken down permanently as a result of domestic abuse."
- Paragraph VDA 4.1 lists the permission the applicant must have, or have last been granted. The first and most common is permission as a partner under Appendix FM — expressly excluding permission as a fiancé, fiancée or proposed civil partner — of someone who is a British citizen, settled in the UK, or an EEA national with limited leave granted under paragraph EU3 of Appendix EU on the basis of condition 1 in paragraph EU14. Other sub-paragraphs cover partners under Appendix EU, partners of a person with refugee permission, certain partners under Part 8, partners under Appendix Armed Forces or Part 7, and people previously granted leave under the concession below.
- Paragraph VDA 4.3: an applicant outside the UK must have been abandoned outside the UK, and applies on the form "Return to the UK".
Applying
The form inside the UK is SET (DV), used both by the victim and by a child applying with them or separately. Paragraph VDA 1.3 makes the fee a validity requirement "unless the applicant has been granted a fee waiver". A refused application carries an administrative review under Appendix AR, and a successful one is granted settlement.
There is no qualifying period. The route is not tied to how long the applicant has held permission as a partner. Our entry on the route covers the evidence it is decided on.
The concession that bridges the gap
The Migrant Victims of Domestic Abuse Concession, previously the Destitution Domestic Violence Concession, grants 3 months of leave outside the rules, on conditions permitting employment and with no prohibition on recourse to public funds. It is designed to make the settlement application possible rather than to be an end in itself.
From 16 February 2024 the concession was widened. It had previously covered a victim in the UK with permission as a partner under Appendix FM or Appendix Armed Forces; it now also covers a victim in the UK as the dependent partner of someone with permission on a work or study route.
The 3 months matter as a deadline as well as a support. Someone with pre-settled status under the EU Settlement Scheme who is eligible under Appendix VDA can apply on form SET (DV) at any time, but loses access to public funds under the concession if the application is not made within the 3-month period.
You apply through the GOV.UK application for the concession. Our public funds entry covers what the condition otherwise blocks.
Where the abuse route does not apply
The Rules leave several other doors, none of them on the partner route itself.
As a parent
Appendix FM contains a parent route with its own eligibility requirements at paragraphs E-ECPT and E-LTRPT. Separately, GOV.UK states an exception that runs across the family rules: an application may still be possible where "you have a child in the UK who is a British or Irish citizen or has lived in the UK for 7 years and it would be unreasonable for them to leave the UK", or where refusal would breach human rights. That is paragraph EX.1, and it leads to the 10-year route rather than the 5-year one — our entry on exceptional circumstances sets out how.
Private life
Appendix Private Life is a separate route with its own residence thresholds. It leads to settlement on a longer qualifying period than the partner route, and permission on it counts towards the 10-year family settlement route under Appendix Settlement Family Life.
Switching to a work or study route
A switch is an application on the new route's own terms, meeting all of its requirements. On the Skilled Worker route those have moved since 22 July 2025: the general salary threshold is £41,700 or the going rate, whichever is higher, the skill level is RQF 6 for new applicants, and jobs below that level can only be sponsored where the occupation code is on the Immigration Salary List or the Temporary Shortage List. A Student visa or the Graduate route may be available where the underlying conditions are met.
Practical points from the published rules
- Know the expiry date on the permission held. The question the Rules ask is always about the date of application against that date.
- An application made before permission expires keeps the applicant lawfully in the UK while it is decided. GOV.UK: "You can stay in the UK until you've been given a decision, as long as you applied before your last visa expired."
- Overstaying is a suitability issue in its own right, with limited exceptions set out in Part Suitability of the Rules.
- Regulated advice. GOV.UK maintains a service to find an immigration adviser. Advisers are regulated by the Immigration Advice Authority, which replaced the Office of the Immigration Services Commissioner on 16 January 2025. Rowan gives information, not advice; our entry on applying alone or with a solicitor covers the difference.
Related entries
Questions and answers
Does my permission end when the relationship ends?
Not by itself. The Home Office guidance 'Partners, divorce and dissolution' says that where a UK sponsor notifies the Home Office of the breakdown, 'it is possible to consider whether that leave should be curtailed', and adds that 'curtailment is not however automatic'. It also says the Home Office will not curtail on this ground unless the settled sponsor is prepared to make a disclosable public statement that the marriage or civil partnership no longer subsists and that they do not intend to live with the estranged partner in future.
Is there a right of appeal against curtailment?
No. The same guidance states: 'There is no right of appeal against any curtailment decision made on or after 6 April 2015.'
What is the Victim of Domestic Abuse route?
It is a route to settlement in its own right, set out in Appendix Victim of Domestic Abuse to the Immigration Rules. Where the applicant has, or was last granted, permission as a partner on one of the listed routes and 'the relationship between the applicant and their partner must have broken down permanently as a result of domestic abuse', a successful application is granted settlement, not limited leave. The form is SET (DV), and a fee waiver is available.
Is there support while that application is decided?
The Migrant Victims of Domestic Abuse Concession, formerly the Destitution Domestic Violence Concession, grants 3 months of leave outside the rules with permission to work and no prohibition on recourse to public funds. Since 16 February 2024 it also covers a victim who is in the UK as the dependent partner of someone on a work or study route, not only partners under Appendix FM.
Am I covered if my partner was not British or settled?
Not by paragraph VDA 4.1(a), which requires the partner to have been a British citizen, settled in the UK, or an EEA national with limited leave under paragraph EU3 of Appendix EU on the basis of condition 1 in paragraph EU14. Other sub-paragraphs cover partners of refugees, partners under Appendix EU, partners under Appendix Armed Forces, and people previously granted leave under the concession. Permission held as a fiancé, fiancée or proposed civil partner is expressly excluded.
This guide is general information about published immigration rules. It is not advice about an individual application under s.82 Immigration and Asylum Act 1999, and Rowan is not regulated by the Immigration Advice Authority. Immigration rules change several times a year. For advice on a particular situation, contact an adviser authorised by the Immigration Advice Authority or an immigration solicitor. Always check GOV.UK for the authoritative current rules.