Relationship Breakdown During a Settlement Application
This guide sets out the published routes and requirements that come into play when a relationship ends during a settlement application. It does not assess anyone's case, and it does not predict what the Home Office will decide.
- Section
- ILR & Settlement
- Reading time
- 8 min
- Last checked
- 3 September 2026
- Source
- The published Immigration Rules and GOV.UK guidance, linked throughout this guide.
- Rowan does not
- Look at your own case, tell you which route to choose, or say what the Home Office will decide. This guide shows the published rules and where to read them.
In short
- The concession is now the Migrant Victims of Domestic Abuse Concession. GOV.UK confirms it used to be the destitution domestic violence concession (DDVC).
- That concession gives 3 months' permission to stay and the ability to apply to claim benefits.
- Settlement under Appendix Victim of Domestic Abuse has no English language requirement and no Life in the UK test — rules VDA 6.1, 6.2 and 7.1 are all DELETED.
- The fee is £3,226 per person, with a published fee waiver, and a decision usually within 6 months.
- Which routes a person may apply under is a matter for a regulated adviser. Rowan states the published rules only.
Settlement as a partner rests on the relationship. Where a relationship ends because of domestic abuse there is a separate published route: Appendix Victim of Domestic Abuse, which has no English language and no Life in the UK requirement, costs £3,226 with a fee waiver where the applicant cannot support themselves, and is usually decided within 6 months. Where the relationship has ended for other reasons, other routes exist with their own requirements. Immigration advice on an individual case is regulated and this site does not give it.
Why the Relationship Matters to the Application
Settlement on the partner route is granted on the basis of the relationship, and the Immigration Rules require it to be genuine and subsisting. If the relationship has ended, that requirement is no longer met. GOV.UK does not publish a rule that fixes the outcome by reference to the date an application was submitted, and this guide does not invent one or predict what a decision would be.
Our guide to the partner route to settlement sets out the requirements that route carries, and divorce and separation on a partner visa covers the reporting obligations that go with a change of circumstances.
If the Relationship Broke Down Because of Domestic Abuse
There is a published settlement route for this, and it is separate from the ordinary partner route. GOV.UK sets it out on Indefinite leave to remain or enter (domestic violence or abuse), and the rules are in Immigration Rules Appendix Victim of Domestic Abuse.
GOV.UK describes it as applying where your relationship has broken down because of domestic violence or abuse from your partner or your partner's family, and it lists the statuses the partner must hold: a British citizen; a person settled in the UK; a member of the UK armed forces who has served at least 4 years; a person with permission to stay as a refugee; a person with settled status under the EU Settlement Scheme; or a citizen of the EU, Switzerland, Norway, Iceland or Liechtenstein with pre-settled status who was living in the UK by 31 December 2020.
GOV.UK says to give a statement about your circumstances when you apply, and to include supporting evidence if you have it, adding that you do not need it to apply.
What this route does not require
In Appendix Victim of Domestic Abuse the English language rules VDA 6.1 and VDA 6.2, and the knowledge of life in the UK rule VDA 7.1, are all marked DELETED. Neither the English language requirement nor the Life in the UK test applies on this route, which is a difference from the ordinary partner route to settlement.
Cost and decision time
GOV.UK states the application fee is £3,226 per person, “unless you do not have enough money to support yourself”. The published grounds for the waiver are evidence of homelessness or housing you cannot afford, being unable to afford essentials, or a low income where paying would harm a child's wellbeing. A decision usually comes within 6 months of giving fingerprints and a photograph. Our guide to settlement after domestic abuse covers the route in full, and the domestic abuse provisions cover the wider position.
The Migrant Victims of Domestic Abuse Concession
The concession for someone who needs access to benefits while their position is resolved is the Migrant Victims of Domestic Abuse Concession. GOV.UK states in terms: “This used to be called the ‘destitution domestic violence concession (DDVC)’.” Older articles and forms still use the old name.
It is for someone in the UK on a temporary visa as a partner whose relationship has broken down because of domestic abuse and who needs access to benefits to support themselves. GOV.UK says: “If successful, you will get permission to stay in the UK for 3 months,” and that you will then be able to apply to claim benefits. The page was last updated on 26 February 2026.
Getting Help Now
If you are in immediate danger, call 999 and ask for the police. GOV.UK adds that if you cannot speak and are calling on a mobile, press 55 to have the call transferred to the police.
The helplines differ across the UK. GOV.UK's domestic abuse: how to get help page lists:
- England — National Domestic Abuse Helpline (Refuge): 0808 2000 247
- Scotland — Domestic Abuse and Forced Marriage Helpline: 0800 027 1234
- Wales — Live Fear Free: 0808 80 10 100
- Northern Ireland — Domestic and Sexual Abuse Helpline: 0808 802 1414
- UK-wide, for male victims — Men's Advice Line: 0808 801 0327
If the Relationship Ended for Other Reasons
Other published routes exist, each with its own requirements. They are not alternatives that anyone automatically has; whether a particular person meets any of them is not something this site can say.
- Another visa route: a work or study route applied for in the ordinary way, with its own qualifying period towards settlement.
- Long residence: settlement after 10 years' lawful residence, under the long residence rules.
- Parent of a child in the UK: a route in Appendix FM with its own requirements. See our guide to the parent route.
- Private life: a separate route in the Immigration Rules, with its own residence requirements.
The Home Office publishes its contact routes on GOV.UK, and our guide to contacting the Home Office lists them.
Where Advice Comes From
Immigration advice is regulated in the UK. Only a solicitor, a barrister, or an adviser regulated by the Immigration Advice Authority — the body that replaced the Office of the Immigration Services Commissioner on 16 January 2025 — may advise on an individual case. Rowan sets out published rules and does not advise.
GOV.UK's find an immigration adviser service lists regulated advisers, and our guide on applying with or without a solicitor explains what each can do. The requirements themselves are on GOV.UK's indefinite leave to remain pages.
Questions and answers
Does the partner route to settlement depend on the relationship continuing?
Yes. Settlement as a partner is granted on the basis of the relationship, and the Immigration Rules require it to be genuine and subsisting. If it has ended, that requirement is no longer met. GOV.UK publishes no rule that fixes the outcome by reference to the date the application was submitted, so this guide does not state one.
What is the concession for people who cannot support themselves?
It is the Migrant Victims of Domestic Abuse Concession. GOV.UK says it used to be called the destitution domestic violence concession, or DDVC, so older material uses that name. If granted, it gives permission to stay in the UK for 3 months and the ability to apply to claim benefits.
Is there an English or Life in the UK requirement on the domestic abuse settlement route?
No. In Appendix Victim of Domestic Abuse the English language rules VDA 6.1 and VDA 6.2 and the knowledge of life in the UK rule VDA 7.1 are all marked DELETED. Neither requirement applies on that route.
What does a settlement application on the domestic abuse route cost?
GOV.UK states £3,226 per person, "unless you do not have enough money to support yourself". A fee waiver can be applied for on evidence of homelessness or unaffordable housing, being unable to afford essentials, or a low income that would harm a child's wellbeing. A decision usually comes within 6 months of giving fingerprints and a photograph.
This guide is general information about published immigration rules. It is not advice about an individual application under s.82 Immigration and Asylum Act 1999, and Rowan is not regulated by the Immigration Advice Authority. Immigration rules change several times a year. For advice on a particular situation, contact an adviser authorised by the Immigration Advice Authority or an immigration solicitor. Always check GOV.UK for the authoritative current rules.